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Hello everyone. What’s good? I hope you're doing extremely well.

I'm 100% openly gay and I'm proud with who I am (I'm NOT straight and I'm definitely NOT bisexual at all, nor will I become involved with a bisexual/married man at all).

This is going to hurt me when I state this (and I know that I'm going to receive a lot of heated and upsetting comments from other people), but when it comes to men (gay, bisexual, married) who are living on the downlow, I wouldn't tell anyone about their personal business to other people, but at the same time, I don't respect any gay/bisexual man who lives on the DL and lives a lie, because only a real man would not be ashamed of who he is, and this is the type of man I want in my life (and no, NOT a bisexual/married man either). I already know that everyone has various reasons for being on the DL, so they don't even have to explain it to me, because I've heard it all, but I'm a strong and powerful individual who believes in living an open and free life, and this is the type of person I am (I'm no better than anyone else though, but I know myself very well). Gay/bisexual men who are on the downlow get into relationships and end up making it extremely difficult for open gay/bi men to be themselves.

My best features are my eyes, spirit, upbringing and friendly personality. In addition, I'm very bold, blunt, direct, upfront, forward, outspoken, I keep it real and I tell it like it is. I know myself very well, and if you don't like who I am, get out of my face and move on. I don't have any room in my life for haters.

I love all kinds of music including techno, trance (my all-time favorite), house, italo disco, R&B, rock/pop, alternative and indie (I'm not much of a rap music person at all).

I haven't been in any relationship for 2 years since the passing of my ex-boyfriend (there's a photo of him on my photos section as well). He was the love of my life and I was so blessed to have such a beautiful, wonderful, loving and caring man who loved me for who I am. On Christmas Day of 2006, I lost him to a life-threatening disease called spinal meningitis. I had a difficult time accepting his death and it was the very first holiday I've spent the holidays without him, but my family was home for the holidays and my dad said, "I know it's so difficult for you to accept his untimely passing, but Steve would want you to be happy and in love again. You have to move on." My mom said, "Your father's right. You can't hold onto him forever. He's home with God now and you have to move on and be happy again." They're right. I realize that everything happens for a reason, and I've finally accepted his death and moved on. I’m in no hurry to become involved in another relationship right now, and I’m not dating or seeing anyone right now.

My parents, relatives and my friends (gay, straight, bi) have given me so much love, support and encouragement. I always return the love, support and encouragement to them. I was brought up in a Christian household and I worship & serve my God just like everyone else because God is the head of my life (my father is also a minister of his church here in Chicago, but my lifestyle has nothing to do with him or my mother at all, so don't even think negative if you're going to tell me, "Your father will hate you tremendously."). I look forward to establishing friendships with you.

With hugs, friendship, encouragement and support always, Edwin Williams - Chicago, IL

Aquarius

Athletic

6' 3 (1.91 m)

Brown

African American

Single

No

No

Smile

Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

Bald

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Legal

Legal Assistant to 4 Attorneys

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

Alone

There Is No Noise

No

No

Cool Dude

Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Cooking, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Tv, Going To A Concert

Not looking to date anyone right now.

Skydiving.

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy

Other

Once A Week

Very Conservative

To operate my own legal consulting business in my home.

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Gospel, Punk

Ancient, Business, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Health, History, Horror, Humor, Music, Mystery, Political, Poetry, Sports

Going out with my friends, dancing, and just living life to the fullest extent.

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look for the good heart in a good person.

Friend